Boyfriend’s ex is working obeah on me 
I don’t want to get married again 
Made love to my dead husband’s brother 
I have the worst luck with men 
Reasons why ladyboys give oral sex: Arpita
They enjoy the physical contrast between their perceived femininity and their partner’s masculinityIt’s kind of about the physical dynamic between...
Reasons why ladyboys give oral sex: Archana
It reinforces their sexual identity as a woman who pleases menSome trans girls identify as straight women who want to...
Reasons why ladyboys give oral sex: Aparna
It shifts the sexual focus entirely away from their own genitalsThis is a really big one. If she’s worried or...
Reasons why ladyboys give oral sex: Anusha
It allows them to be sexually active without triggering bottom dysphoriaBottom dysphoria is when your lower parts make you feel...
Reasons why ladyboys give oral sex: Anuradha
They don't have to worry about maintaining an erection, which can be difficult on hormone replacement therapyI read that when...
Reasons why ladyboys give oral sex: Anupama
It avoids the anxiety or dysphoria that can accompany penetrative sexPenetrative sex can be really stressful for a trans girl...
Reasons why ladyboys give oral sex: Anoushka
It provides a highly intimate way to connect during pre-op or non-op stagesIf a trans girl hasn't had bottom surgery...
Reasons why ladyboys give oral sex: Ankita
It allows them to express their femininity in a traditional, culturally understood wayIn movies and stuff, going down on a...
Dating Indians: The extended family vortex
The moment things get semi-serious, word travels fast. A cousin spots you at a café, an aunt sees your Instagram...
Dating Indians: Living at home is the norm
In much of India, moving out only when you marry is the default script, especially for women. It's tied to...