Boyfriend’s ex is working obeah on me

Okay, I’m not gonna lie, if you genuinely believe in obeah, that is some terrifying stuff and I don’t blame you for freaking out. But before you go buying a bunch of sage and holy water, let’s look at the facts. Is she actually doing spiritual warfare on you, or is your boyfriend just giving her reasons to stay in your business? A lot of times, what we think is a “curse” is just a toxic ex who won’t let go.

If your boyfriend is still taking her calls, hanging out with her, or being shady, then the problem isn’t obeah—it’s him. He needs to completely cut her off and shut down whatever drama she’s trying to start. If he’s leaving the door open for her to mess with you, then he’s basically inviting the negativity into your life. Make him handle his ex.

Now, if you really do feel like something dark is going on and your boyfriend isn’t the issue, you need to protect your energy. Whatever your spiritual or cultural beliefs are, lean into them right now. Go to someone you trust, whether that’s a pastor, a spiritual worker, or an elder in your family, and get some protection. Don’t try to fight spiritual battles completely on your own if you’re scared.

But honestly, the biggest curse in this situation might just be this relationship. If being with your boyfriend brings you this much anxiety, paranoia, and drama, is it even worth it? You should be focused on loving each other, not fighting off his past. If he can’t close the door on his ex firmly, you might just need to walk away and cleanse your life of him too.