I have the worst luck with men

I feel like so many women say this, but honestly, is it really bad luck or is it just a pattern? The dating pool right now is literally a swamp, I’m not gonna lie to you. But if you keep attracting the exact same type of trash guys, you have to look at what you’re putting out there. Sometimes we think we want a nice guy, but we subconsciously go for the ones who give us anxiety because it feels like passion.

Take a hard look at the last few guys you dated. What were the warning signs that you totally ignored in the beginning? Did they disrespect your time, flirt with other girls, or act shady? If you saw the red flags and still dated them, that’s not bad luck, that’s just ignoring your gut. You have to start trusting your intuition the second something feels off.

You definitely need to take a break from dating altogether. Like, genuinely just vibe by yourself for a few months. Figure out who you are outside of a relationship and build up your self-esteem. When you know your worth, you stop letting losers waste your time because you realize you’d rather be alone than treated badly.

Once you start valuing yourself, your luck will magically “change.” You’ll start attracting totally different guys because your boundaries will be higher. Stop blaming the universe and take control of your love life. You aren’t cursed, you just need to raise your standards and stick to them no matter how cute the guy is.