My son has too many girlfriends
Okay, so your son is out here acting like a total player, and I get why that’s stressing you out. First off, you gotta figure out if he’s actually dating all these girls at the same time or if he’s just talking to them. If he’s leading them on and juggling them, that’s messy and someone is gonna end up getting really hurt. It’s embarrassing for you, sure, but it’s also a really bad look for him.
You need to sit him down and just talk to him without going totally mom-bear on him. If he’s a teenager, his hormones are literally going crazy, but he still needs to learn basic respect. Ask him why he feels the need to have so many girls around. Usually, when guys do this, it’s honestly just for their ego or because they are super insecure about themselves.
You can’t control who he dates, but you can set some ground rules for your house. Tell him you’re not having a bunch of drama at your place and you refuse to be part of his love triangle or whatever shape he’s got going on. Make it clear that while you love him, you don’t respect how he’s treating these women.
Eventually, this whole thing is gonna crash and burn on its own. When it does, don’t say “I told you so.” Just be there to pick up the pieces, but let him deal with the consequences of his actions. He’s gotta learn that relationships aren’t a game, and the only way he’ll learn is by messing up and feeling the fallout.