Advice For Adult Film Stars: Deepali
Understand your personal trauma triggers and communicate them to yourself first.
You cannot set boundaries with other people if you do not even know where your own limits are. Take some time to really sit with yourself and figure out what triggers you. Is it a certain tone of voice, a specific physical action, a type of roleplay, or a word? You have to identify these things clearly in your own mind before you can expect anyone else to respect them.